Not Just About Purity

Hello amazing people, hope your day was beautiful? Today's post is one every young person should read, this post seeks to help us know our limits in relationships. Don't forget to comment and share the link to others. Enjoy

Sometime ago I wrote on the subject "Not just about purity" but unfortunately the book went missing. An event prompted my writing and now writing on the same subject, it is obvious God wants me to pay attention to what he told me, so he is repeating it again.

It's been more than two years I wrote on this subject but the need to write on it again is heavy. Not just about purity, most times as Christian and God - believing girls, we get so overwhelmed  when we meet this Christian brother that loves God, have a vision for his future and have great potentials. 

We become close friends with this brother and after sometime we begin to feel this brother is "God'swill". In the long run, you realize the God - loving brother doesn't feel anything for you, he only sees you as a close friend and sister.

You received the award of two zones, friend and sister zone. So sad, I understand your pain sis, you felt everything was clicking, everything was going well but now you are so disappointed.

Sister, it is not just about purity, purity is a nonnegotiable demand as a believer. But the fact this brother share same values with you in this corrupt world ( doesn't make him the one for you).

Many sisters have gotten hurt because of the high expectations on a loving brother that sees you as a friend and sister. I understand that as females our mind and thought pattern is different from that of the males.

As females, most times we read meaning into almost every act of love and kindness. We are fashioned that way but you can take control of your emotions and prevent getting hurt.

Don't let that brother put you in a tight condition by his constant communication and sweet talks. It is almost natural to start developing feelings because of so much intimacy, you begin to see what you have never see before.

Sis, set the standard, don't let anyone talk you into seeing visions. Guard your heart and set you priorities right.

Hello brothers, watch what you say we not you and you are not us, we don't reason the same. So,please help us not to get hurt, draw the line and state the obvious.